Definetely weird.

It really depends. And it is awfully unfair. Women have lingerie. Guys… have underwear.

If the objective is to tease and just make things simmer for a very long time, give me lace, strong colours and as little fabric as humanly possible,just barely visible or noticeable under the clothing. Is it there? Is it not? Keep me guessing.

If it is to set the mood and go straight to the point, lets move towards full body web or mesh suits, with open crotch. Let’s be obvious. Very obvious.

For guys, being one, I would like to have some choice but the most risqué underwear I own are jock straps. It’s good for a laugh or a tease, but not much else.

It’s not about the who but the context where I find myself. Being a bit of a naturist/nudist, nudity is not immediately sexual for me. I’m comfortable with my body. I do avoid making others feel awkward.

Period sex is a thing. Nothing wrong or dangerous in it, if the woman in question wants to have it. It does require a bit more preparation and a lot more cleanup but it can be really fun.

Some women become more sensible during their period and can achieve orgasm faster. Others don’t even want to be touched and are instead very receptive to ice cream and pain medication. It varies from one woman to the next.

First option coming to mind as well.

Very nice.

That pretty much sums it up.

I was very afraid of hurting myself but realizing there was nice sensations to experiment with was an unexpected surprise.

I have a few occasions.

At some point in life, I lived in a newly developed area and I liked to take some long walks to clear my thoughts and… do stuff by myself, on the hills.

I once spotted a couple making out near some old derelict wind mills. She had his meat in her hand and he had his hand between her tighs. She wasn’t being shy in regards to how she enjoyed what he was doing to her. Watched for a few minutes, from a good safe distance, then sneaked away.

More recently, while walking my dog, we literally surprised a couple that was getting it on hot and steamy in a secluded area of a nearby park. Off leash, my dog was a concern good boy and thinking the dude was hurting the girl, has she was trying to swallow his meat whole and grunting, barked at the guy, while staring down on them from a ledge. The girl screamed her lungs out then started cursing my dog, who barked again manifesting his disapproval of the reaction. I laughed my way home.

Dick appreciation/rating.

As in, a guy posts a picture of his dick and can get it rated by the visitors. Extra funny if people leave comments recommending possible upgrades to the pictured junk or picture taking technique.

If dick pics are a thing, lets try to make it more artistically valued.

amateurs

As in, no OnlyFans, etc. Just everyday people posting naughty content, for fun.

I don’t really think I have kinks or fetishes. I do have curiosities and try to satisfy them, if feasible.

I indulged in a few but it did not really change anything. Guess I’m just dull.

Whatever you see fit. Nobody has the right to tell you otherwise.

Ask why. Try to understand. It may be shocking but it is not my life but it someone I love. So, respect first, respect second, respect last.

My respect. That’s some tough history.

It smells like reheated puritanism in here… Glad to know the more things change, the more they stay the same.

No, it would not matter to me. I wouldn’t ask, either. People deserve their privacy. But I’m aware of how outdated that concept may sound or be, nowadays. If I got to know, I’d like to know from the start. Because… yes.

The least I’d expect would be for the person to respect me and make sure everything was well and safe, before condoms could be considered to be overlooked. I always made sure to watch my health in regards to others.

I’m aware that for this hypothetical STDs are to be diaregarded but still…

But “body count”? What happened to “sex partners” or “lovers”? Got too clinical or too intimate? I’d like to understand the almost pathological need of lingo nowadays to create distance or sound military. In this case, both at the same time. Let’s dehumanize ourselves a bit more.

Going back to the original question again:

No, it does not matter how many people warmed their sheets or enjoyed their bits. Good for them, got lucky, but I get to keep the prize. Maybe share a bit, if we get a bit more on the wild side.

Let’s raise the stakes. What if the person is/was a sex worker? A prostitute or maybe a porn actor or actress? Does their line of work makes them less worthy of having emotional needs? Less human? Less of a person? Not really. In my understanding they are as deserving, if not even more, of having someone love, respect and support them.

I remember watching this documentary on sex workers years back and how this actress described her need, after a long day of work of being fucked, to go home, have a shower, have a nice meal with her partner and afterwards go to bed and make love in the missionary position. Telling, isn’t it?

And in the extreme scenario of that long line of people stemming from some trauma or perhaps a mental health condition, again, it should not matter at all.

I’m now available for your downvotes and vitriole.

Do yourself a favour and go to a nudist beach or a nude resort.

Spend some time there. Meet some people and chat.

Being naked is not sexual. We sexualize nakedness because we are usually taught from very young age to always be dressed and seeing exposed skin feels… naughty. When it really isn’t.

A nudist/clothing optional society would work like any other. If nudist, it would probably have lot less taboos. But keep in mind clothes also have a practical side to it.

Putting it bluntly: you can’t.

If it’s to the point of requiring surgery - although what is deemed as surgery requiring varies from place to place - there is no work aroud, no coping mechanisms.

That narrow of a time window, on my own personal experience, tells your condition is pretty serious.

Does your jaw clicks when you eat or talk?

Maybe some physical therapy can ease you a bit. A good therapist may even work on the information you may give them, from what you remember from when you were diagnosed.

Ball gags, or anything that forces your jaw open, are off the table. I’m making some guess work here but I think you have an higher than average risk of getting your jaw locked if you force it. I can’t describe to you how painful that is and how even more painful it is to have it reset.

I respect your fantasy/fetish/kink but you are better off putting this one to rest.

Give what you can and whoever complains about it can go fuck themselves. And reading what you’ve posted, you grant a great joy ride for a lot of lucky dudes.

I sincerely wish you can prove all of my worst expectations wrong, without endangering yourself in the process. And hope to read about if it ever happens.

Stay strong.

It’s already been said but I’m going to stress it: have your TMJ checked.

A simple x-ray exam will be enough to determine if whatever is causing you discomfort has an organic reason, at the bone structure level.

Does your jaw pop or locks or catches if you yawn for too long? If so, you may have a disaligned joint or be suffering from some joint condition.

If not, you may have something bothering you at the tendons/muscles level.

Hopefully, it is something you can work around, with gradual exercise.

One word of advice: ball gags or those implements used to keep the mouth open are to be avoided. Those put the joint, muscles and tendons under pressure. My best compliments to those who use it but it does horrors to the joints.

I’m glad you did. Very nice picture and very nice setting. Feels very intimate. Boudoir style.

Go sleep it off, which I hope you’ve had by this time. Then do yourself a favour, and find some couch time. Just the thought process that led you to posting what you did should be a good tell you’re in need for a review.

Either that or you are an epic troll.

I think we can agree that underage is by default a crime, so that is that.

Anything more than a couple of years between partners throws me off. Even if was for the sake of a one night stand, it does not work for me. A long term commited relationship makes it even worse.

Writing good erotica is tricky. I should know; I try to do it myself. There is a very thin line between being graphic but only enticing and being graphical and dirty. Reddit was not a good source. Here, what I have found is mostly AI slop.

Feet are not supposed to be the relevant part. The person to which they are attached, yes. The following is to much information but my partner loves to tease me when approaching her from behind for an on all fours romp. My bits are just on the right place for a passing caress before conecting. It’s not the feet: it’s what she uses her feet for.

Pubes are fun. If you’re in to cum shots, dark pubes make for good contrast. And when it dries, it makes the area sticky. A reminder of what made it that way.

A wild, unkept, pubic area can be messy, make personal hygiene more complicated and even be uncomfortable. A well kept is a treat for the eye.

Bare does facilitate oral but I like the musty odor that clings to the hair. Pheronomes are still a thing for humans, just really underplayed.