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Cake day: June 13th, 2023

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  • It’s a common stereotype (I can confirm anecdotally) that whenever a woman goes to the doctor for any reason, the doctor will do one or more of the following:

    1. ask when their last period was, regardless of the presenting issues
    2. tell them to lose weight
    3. order a pap smear
    4. dismiss their distress as insignificant due to period/hysteria/any-BMI-higher-than-a-supermodel/just being a woman.

    This happens a lot. I don’t know the stats but it’s happened enough times to women I know to actually cause them to avoid medical treatment.





  • Dude, you’re almost starting to understand what I’m saying, but obviously not there yet.

    I forgot I had all the power and was the president of the world right now.

    So, it would be simple and easy if an impossible and unrealistic condition existed. Not helpful.

    I can get my own solar panels […] I can lobby my community

    That’s a good start, and not hard. Maybe even simple, and/or easy. But it really doesn’t solve the whole problem - it only solves a tiny, tiny part of the problem.

    You just need the people with power to actually push for the things I am saying

    And how exactly are any of us going to get this to happen? Is it simple to get the people with power to do something? Or easy? Don’t you think there are millions of people who would love for exactly that to happen? Once again, if it were simple or easy, why hasn’t it been done?

    It is simple

    Oh man, I thought you were starting to understand.

    It is not simple. It is not easy. Of course we need to get the people in power to make change. But that is absolutely not easy or simple. It’s like saying, “just cure cancer, duh!”

    I do understand what you’re saying. I’m saying you’re wrong. It may be easy for one person to do certain things, but it’s NOT easy or simple to get many people to do enough to effect real change.