I use Microsoft ToDo, sharing would be an option (requires an MS account for both)

The project just started and as far as I can tell they have uploaded some ‘random’ videos so far.

Agree - Mastodon has lists, would like this too for Lemmy (even though I’ve not used them so far)

On 2nd look - I see lemmy.ml comms, could have been a ‘hickup’

Not sure - could be because it’s the ‘official’ one and not a community server.