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  • brewbart@feddit.orgtoAsk Lemmy@lemmy.world*Permanently Deleted*
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    3 months ago

    My guess: these men never learned how to maintain and care for a relationship or cannot stand up for themselves. At the beginning of a relationship everything is exciting and without maintenance (from both sides) it quickly goes downhill. I can imagine for some of those men this downhill part is their equivalent view of marriage / long term relationship. Which checks out if your experience is dominated by passive or active neglect from/of their partner ,







  • First of all: rude! I dont want to think about climbing on 40.

    Jest aside here are some things I always put off writing down from the back of my mind:

    If you have the support structure, get children at the earliest point you feel somewhat comfortable - do you’ll be around each other for longer.

    No table stands only on two legs - you should always cultivate three sets of skills that are potentially money earning.

    Tend to your outlets - everyone should do something as an emotional, creative, physical and structural outlet. You also must avoid combining more than two. Always create something, never stop moving and always consider your self and others well-being.

    Maintain your attention span - avoid inattentive use of fast paced media

    Budgeting, learn it, do it, don’t overcomplicate it. There is no way to become rich fast and stay a decent person.

    Strive to learn at least one other language - every language is like you unlock a new facette of your soul.






  • Generally agreeing, but as a Corgi owner just a small correction: They are short in height but have a long body. It’s not a problem if the breed is small, the proportions have to be right.

    Corgis, although at the border to a problematic ratio, the breed lines I’m accustomed with are still fine(Europe). Corgis tend to have back problems when not properly prevented their whole life - avoiding downward stairs, restricting jumping or anything in the direction of dog sports made for Aussies, etc. But due to their stockier build they are pretty robust against the typical problems you see in Dachshunds for example. It also helps that they’re not hopelessly mis-bred yet



  • brewbart@feddit.orgtoPeople Twitter@sh.itjust.worksOops
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    11 months ago

    It depends how obsessed you are with it. For my wife and me it’s similar: both paychecks go into the same account, but we split off our pocket money into our own accounts accordingly - although I take a bigger sum in this proportion, if I don’t spend it it’ll just be transfered to an account that is play money for vacation, hobbies etc. And that happens idk every quarter or so


  • In my perspective IQ only has so many consequences, due to the limitations of the method. Nowadays we know to separate different forms of intelligence and also that transferring skills between those forms can have an impact on overall ‘performance’ . That being said, it can be a good indicator for stuff but as you point out, it’s often misused as divider instead of an accelerator.