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Cake day: June 22nd, 2023

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  • My home state had a permit for that too, certain vehicles I could drive on certain roads under restrictive speed limits. So I could, like, drive a tractor or farm truck with the right license plates down county roads to another field.

    That was separate from a school permit. The nearest school bus stop to me was miles away and didn’t go directly to my school so I would have spent 3+ hours per school day on multiple buses if I hadn’t been able to drive myself in. Not to mention sports on weekends and other stuff where the normal school day bus wasn’t running. My permit restricted the hours I could drive, it had to be to or from school or jobs, and I couldn’t give anyone rides other than siblings. I think I wasn’t supposed to drive on the interstate too.








  • Close. Engineering. Lots of engineers hung on 5-8 years longer than originally planned because their retirement plans got hurt so badly, which meant fewer jobs for fresh grad engineers to get hired on. I’m starting to see it again with colleagues who want to retire this year but are tacking on an extra couple because their finances aren’t where they planned to have them.

    Then I can get going about removal of pensions back in the day and expectation that people jump job to job to get pay increases instead of getting raises in-role that match let alone exceed inflation, incentivizing people to NOT stay with a company for long, leading to a shallow bench for the next line of leaders and experts. I’m mid-to-late 30s and am on my 4th company since college and 3rd job within current company; contrast that with my dad who worked for the same company for almost 40 years and holds as many patents for them and knew that company inside and out. I will never be as knowledgeable and efficient as he was. Where industrialization allowed specialization, it seems like we’re actively pushing to go back to generalization where workers are replaceable with minimal changeover time.




  • In college, watching the industry I was getting a degree in tank (and many others). I chose the field in part because of historically good job stability and 95%+ job placement after college. That all evaporated. Folks who should have been retiring were having to work longer, leaving no room for fresh college grads.

    I hope this AI crap resolves down to a more stable level. I’m concerned the folks in college now will have it even worse between another generational bubble working it’s way through and now AI making things more “efficient” so fewer humans are perceived as necessary.



  • Don’t have so many kids you barely know their names, let alone needs and interests.

    Don’t parentify the girls, making them into mini-mothers that care for the others.

    Don’t instruct the boys that keeping a clean home, cooking, and hygiene is women’s work and beneath them.

    Don’t use physical negative reinforcement (no hitting, no limiting calories).

    Don’t teach that reaching out for help is a moral failing.

    Don’t indoctrinate them into a religion.

    Don’t instill pride and moral superiority in being “better” and “different” than other families.

    Do sit and introspect on how you’re treating your kids. Challenge your preconceptions. My parents could read the above and insist they never did any of them, that they were great parents.



  • Catholic school with uniform including khaki pants. I started my period and bled thru. I swapped to sweatpants. Most teachers just figured I must have some reason and didn’t bother me. A couple asked after it, one accepted my reason and offered to to let me out of class to have a little more time to cleanup or call home or whatever I needed to feel comfortable. The last one gave me detention for being out of uniform.

    School administration reversed it when they heard why I was being sent to detention. I was advised to just go to the main office if it ever happened again so they could help me instead of having to deal with each teacher myself.