I usually just improvise and wing it. It stresses my husband out I think. He likes to plan. 😆
Mohkia
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Hate that this has to be a worry. Makes it harder for people that actually need help to get help. If I was drug seeking there are easier options than going for a freaking adhd assessment. Oh well, try not to stress over it, and I know it’s hard not too but you can always go to another Dr. Just makes it a pain in the ass. Good luck of you do decide to go through with it.
I am not diagnosed but have good reason to suspect I have adhd so I am in the process of trying to get a diagnosis. This is kind of it for me too. My brain never shuts up. Weed slowed my mind down and of course made me feel good like you said. I actually had moments if i didnt overdo it where it gave me motivation to actually do something with myself. Fine line though on the amount, kind of needed to microdose for that affect. Otherwise it just numbed me to my own issues and kind of made me not care. Only reason I quit is because my problems i wasn’t dealing with started to catch up with me and I hit a really bad depressive state that kind of scared me after literally everything was crashing in on me. Maybe eventually I will use it recreational again but for now I’m staying away and trying to get real help.
I lost so much freaking weight after I quit. I had zero appetite and had to force myself to eat the bit I did. It was like I was going through a depression or something. But yes, 2 weeks sounds about howblong the worst of it was for me too.
I hear you on the meds. I’m not sure I’m to enthused about those but people keep saying they help so I don’t know. I also know I need to change my behavioral habits I’ve developed over the years but it’s not easy. Just going to go with whatever the psychiatrist says and gk from there. I’m just so tired of my own crap at this point. And yeah, weed made it easier to just be. And I don’t think you have to take medication if you don’t want too. Don’t think they will force it on you.
Used weed for the past 20ish years to make my damned brain shut up and for sleep issues. I quit about 4 months ago after the realization that I might have adhd. Wanted to see if things got better after stopping. They really didn’t. I had no clue that this could be the source of my issues until recently so now I’m over here waiting for an appointment. Self medication and drug/alcohol use is apparently really common with undiagnosed adhd. But damned do I miss it. The first couple weeks where rough, and i do feel like I was having some withdrawal effects from quitting despite people saying it’s not addictive. It was literally giving me easy dopamine so your comment makes alot of sense.
Mohkia@lemmy.worldto
ADHD@lemmy.world•I always end up anxious about if people will like what I’m saying.English
1·3 years agoAll the freaking time. Like my brain is like “hey! I’m going to talk! I like talking!” And then suddenly turns on itself and is all “what where you thinking dumbass!? You are just going to make an idiot of yourself again” So then I delete my comment and scroll on. Trying to be better on lemmy so here is my comment.
Mohkia@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•How did Lemmy.world become more popular than Lemmy.ml?
2·3 years agoThe migration of a certain subreddit I followed over here led me to this instance so here I am.
Coffee seems to grow well indoors and it’s also a beautiful plant. If you want blooms and beans though you will want to buy a more mature one. Can take years to reach blooming size.
Welcome! I moved to lemmy the Sunday before the blackout and haven’t looked back. I did go back finally on June 30 and deleted my account. There may not be as much content now but that will come in time as we all hopefully try and contribute. I was mostly a lurker on reddit myself, only started commenting more within the past year so will try to be better here. I am quite enjoying my time here and I hope you do as well.
Mohkia@lemmy.worldto
Houseplants@mander.xyz•Currently the favourite in my collection - Asparagus plumosus.English
1·3 years agoLove this particular asparagus. So feathery and fluffy. Also, just so people know this is not actually a fern but relates to the asparagus we eat!
Mohkia@lemmy.worldto
No Stupid Questions@lemmy.world•Are there any Reddit refugees spending more time on Lemmy than Reddit?
1·3 years agoI am proud of myself! Haven’t touch reddit since the 11th! I am free! Ahahahahaha! Ahem. For real though It feels good to break the habit. Course I replaced one addiction. With another by landing over here. Oh well. That is how it goes I suppose.
Mohkia@lemmy.worldto
Lemmy.World Announcements@lemmy.world•Reddit CEO slams protesters, says he'll change site rules
5·3 years agoAnd the fediverse is the mycelium network that connects us all.
Haha! That damned add was incessant. I guess reddit felt I needed to repent or something. So glad to be away from that crap!
Mohkia@lemmy.worldto
Lemmy.World Announcements@lemmy.world•Reddit CEO Digs In Heels As User Outrage Engulfs Website
4·3 years agoAgreed. I have seen time and time again companies going public and turning I to a steaming pile of crap. I have no doubt the ads are going to get worse and they are going to continue to make bad decisions. It’s all about exponential profit now.
One good thing about the blackout is it brought this place to my attention. Made quitting reddit so much easier.
I had no clue this existed before the blackout but now i do and I’m not going back. I was addicted but this place serves my purpose now. The main communities I used reddit for moved over here or have a community over here now so I’m happy. All I’m trying to say is I agree and at the very least there are more people now aware of lemmy at least.
Mohkia@lemmy.worldto
Lemmy.World Announcements@lemmy.world•What value did you get from Reddit that you hope to realize or expand upon here?
4·3 years agoI was mostly a lurker on reddit for a long time but got into some of the hobby subreddits and support groups over covid and started talking more. I stopped doomscrooling so much and focused more on the communities in the individual subs. So now I am here and looking to do the same. Support and community are what I am looking for I guess. And to share my interests with others.
Just found out about this site and happy to be here. Time to delete reddit off my phone!


ADHD here and I do this way to often. I have reminders set to drink water or I will often go a whole day without eating or drinking anything. It is absurd.